We have been married for almost 4 years which consider quite long with so many obstacles and challenges we face along the path. We have gone thru all the hard and sweet time together.Up to the stage that could not facing people or relatives who keep asking about child. All the efforts, just to name a few ,modern or traditional we have try but Allah still want us to keep trying and never give up. It all begin in April 2009 after back from Kelantan visiting relatives, when my wife told that her period delayed 2 weeks and we decide to do the pregnancy test by our own. I was so happy and nothing can explain how excited I was that the test is positive. We are very thankful to Allah because He listen to our prayers and He never test with no reason. FARIS is our precious gift that Allah has award us.
To those out there who still trying to get one follow these advice:-
- never blame or pin point to your spouse.you are meant to be together.
- both should try any means of mediication or examination
- never forget to pray and continuosly pray
- sedekah to anak yatim (do as frequently)
- if one feel down, the other one should be strong and motivated (especially husband)
- enjoy your time together while no child yet.honeymoon at all time.
- after all the efforts and action , tawakal to Allah
- always think positive and one day Allah will fulfill your wish. it is a matter of time (early or late) and think "perancangan Allah adalah terbaik untuk hambanya"
- usaha+doa+tawakal insyaAllah....
